Guys are Requesting Pre-Dates in 2019 and we AGREE

There I was scrolling through my Facebook feed last night when I saw "Guys requesting Pre-dates" in 2019. Without even reading the article in its entirety, I immediately decided this would be a great topic to talk about just to see how our readers would respond.

I agree with this new dating concept! First off, it's nice to hear the word date in 2019 as this became quite obsolete since the emergence of those pesky dating apps --your next love interest was a click or swipe away. Thing is, so many things can go wrong when people commit to a full-on date-date.

Here are a few reasons why I agree with pre-dates.

It saves time + money

I'm assuming a pre-date would be something casual and inexpensive like getting coffee or ice cream and maybe going dutch. If you meet up with the person and they are not a match or just a complete user, it stops there! On a date-date, you would have to painstakingly sit there for hours thinking of an escape plan and also wonder who will pick up the check.

It's like Speed Dating

Like speed dating .. you get to meet several people at a time and it's up to you to continue or not. Depending on the nature of the date you could even score a few free meals back to back and who doesn't love that?

You get to be Honest

Millennials are not about wasting time on things that are not beneficial to us or in this case, things that might not even work out. Who remember the days of going out on a date then doing that "phone tango" dance where you wonder if it's too soon to call back while the other person is wondering if they should call at all. A Pre-date will eliminate all that! If you like the person, naturally you'd want to see them again, if not.. they can get to stepping and you keep it moving.

I know the big discussion on Twitter is all about guys taking girls on pre-dates to see if they are "worth" it --BUT! We have to remember that guys have their list of things they look for in women too and if you are not it sis, why should he waste all that time on a Lobster meal to prove you are not a match?

Do you agree with Pre-dates or Nah? 

*No expletives please -- we keep it clean here at Haute*

We have a small favor to ask. People are reading the Haute Lifestyle than ever since our recent placement in the South Florida Blogger Awards but advertising revenues across the media are falling fast. We do not have investors and everything Blog related is funded out of pocket– we want to keep our journalism as fun and open as we can. So you can see why we need to ask for your help. Our article takes a lot of time, money and hard work to produce. But we do it because we believe our perspective and voices matter – because it might well be your perspective, too.

If everyone who reads our posts, who likes it, helps fund it, our future would be much more secure. 

 For as little as $1, you can support The Haute Lifestyle
 – and it only takes a minute. Hit the "DONATE" button on the top right sidebar.
 Thanks in Advance


Having an event? Invite us 

Twitter: @hautepeople
Instagram @haute_people
Join our Site:  

Post a Comment

Copyright © Haute People. Designed by OddThemes