Women often times think they should always be praised or
pampered and our male counter-parts must always be willing to climb those
“rocks” for us if that’s what makes us happy. Don’t get me wrong we deserve it!
However, we must be willing to climb those rocks too. If he is loving enough to
give you a foot massage be willing to give one back, it’s not a “tit for tat”
contract but it is at least an agreement to make each other happy!
Some of us complain that men change after the chase, no longer
as sweet as they used to be. The “love text messages” have stopped and no
longer do you get a phone call from your man just to say I love you. Have you
stopped to consider that maybe the men in our lives feel as if they are giving
too much and not getting anything in return? Did he stop sending those
text messages because the last couple you didn’t reply to them like you used
to?
We women complain
so much about our failed relationships and how the wrong guys always show up in
our lives. Words of advice don’t complain about the failed ones; use the
experience to enhance your new one. For the love of yourself, stop sit and wait
for your “perfect” guy to find you. Maybe you need to consider dropping your
pride and go out to find him. Or is it that our “perfect” guy DID find us
but we were so caught up with our past relationships’ baggage and we lost
him?
To conclude, stop pointing fingers or complain about the
problems, instead spend some time to think about them. Ask yourself these
questions, where did they start from? Am I the root of the problem? Then when
you have found the source of the problem be the solution.
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