How To Get Your Life!

Hi Guys! If you are into reality T.V you must have heard about "Braxton Family Values" which comes on WE Tv , the show is all about R&B Sensation Toni Braxton & her sisters. Toni's youngest sister Tamar is known for her over the top personality and of course her famous expressions. One of this is "Get Your Life" which means get it together or get it straight. Here are 5 ways to get your life.

Love Yourself: This is easier said than done. First of all "love" is relative. Some people believe that to love yourself means accepting a better form of treatment than you are used to while others think it has to do with buying material things to make you happy. I personally think in order to love yourself you have to know who you are. Once you've figured out who you are then you will know what to accept and what not to accept.

Remove Negativity From Your Life: You can never move forward with negativity around you. This negativity comes mostly from the people around you. This can be friends or even family, if you find that when you are around these people you don't feel happy or all they do is speak negatively about other people ... cut them off completely. This might sound daunting especially If these are people you've known for years. I can guarantee you that once you remove these people, things will be better ... not only will you have clearer thoughts but you will be happier.

Be Positive: Again this is "easier said than done" . Life is filled with challenges and obstacles, that's just how it is. We are all different and all have our cross(es) to bare ... but! If you keep thinking negative thoughts and the worst of every situation, that is what you will attract and that is what will manifest in your life. Instead of curling up in a ball or wearing all black ... Think Positive and see If It makes a different.

Invest in Yourself: It's so weird that in most instances we tend to negate the basic upkeep of our selves. This would fall into three categories: Mind, Body & Spirit. If you are a church person, go to church and get involved in various activities or programs. Instead of watching "Keeping up with the Kardashians" why not invest in a good motivational book? During this time in your life It's best to feed your brain with substantial things instead of garbage. There is also nothing wrong with being pampered ... our bodies need care, if you feel like getting a manicure, go ahead!

Have a Great Support System: "Everybody needs some help along the way". I'm slowing trying to grasp this concept and is starting to see where it makes sense. In everything you do, there has to be somebody there to push you when you are down or feel less than worthy. It is especially great when these people have your best interest at heart as there are a lot of wolves in sheep clothing out there ready to devour you as soon as they see you are about to fail. Figure out who is truly with you from the onset and that extra push will make you feel invincible.

I hope this post inspires at least ONE person out there to be better
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1 comment :

  1. Great article! I need to work on "invest in yourself." With two children and a husband, it's easy to get caught up in taking care of them, and forgetting/ignoring me.

    Thanks for the reminder


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