It is the last day of this Series :-( Based on the comments and interest ( from the Guys ) This was one of the most read Series this month and we are happy to say there will be more articles geared towards the guys :-) Today, the guys tell us their thoughts on whether or not girls and guys can just be friends.
WHATS YOUR TAKE ON THIS TOPIC?
Well , I have lots of friends who are girls who are just that and some I wonder what it would be like to be more than friends. This is such a tricky topic because I feel that at some point one person must catch feelings ( unless yuh dead ). I have one friend who I consider cool ... but I've noticed she tries to touch me a certain way or sneak in a hug that's a little more than friendly. My answer is just NO!! Girls and Guys CANNOT be just friends. It's too complicated! Somebody going feel more about the other person.
HOW DO YOU TELL HER YOU JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS?
Bwoy it rough! You don't want to be a jerk and tell her like that... but on the other hand you have some guys who just don't care and will tell her same way! Another way is to spend less time with her... sometimes females go through things and need somebody to talk to , if you are always there ... then naturally she going catch feelings. Blow her off every now and again. Whatever you do .. tell her you have a girlfriend ( she haffi know ) Bredda! You can't have a Girlfriend and don't tell the Female friend you do. That's a Disaster waiting to happen! Its either you tell her nicely or you be frank and rip off the band- aid really fast.
WHATS YOUR TAKE ON THIS TOPIC?
Well , I have lots of friends who are girls who are just that and some I wonder what it would be like to be more than friends. This is such a tricky topic because I feel that at some point one person must catch feelings ( unless yuh dead ). I have one friend who I consider cool ... but I've noticed she tries to touch me a certain way or sneak in a hug that's a little more than friendly. My answer is just NO!! Girls and Guys CANNOT be just friends. It's too complicated! Somebody going feel more about the other person.
HOW DO YOU TELL HER YOU JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS?
Bwoy it rough! You don't want to be a jerk and tell her like that... but on the other hand you have some guys who just don't care and will tell her same way! Another way is to spend less time with her... sometimes females go through things and need somebody to talk to , if you are always there ... then naturally she going catch feelings. Blow her off every now and again. Whatever you do .. tell her you have a girlfriend ( she haffi know ) Bredda! You can't have a Girlfriend and don't tell the Female friend you do. That's a Disaster waiting to happen! Its either you tell her nicely or you be frank and rip off the band- aid really fast.
If you have ever been in this situation .. comment below and let us know how you dealt with it
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I asked my husband and he says that guys and girls can't be friends. I am not sure I agree.
ReplyDeleteI went through this when I was younger with a boy I really liked. He told me straight out that he just wanted to be friends. It hurt, but I'd much rather have it out in the open that have him playing games like ducking me. That just hurts me feelings.
ReplyDeleteI was more of a guys gal when I was younger. I had a good set of girl friends but we all had a lot of guy friends. It's unforunate after marriage many of those relationships end.
ReplyDeleteI had a lot of guy friends even up until my mid 20's. However, when I got married, or they got married...the friendships sizzled. Understandably so but man...I miss my dudes!
ReplyDeleteI had great guy friends when I was younger but it definitely got harder once I got married.
ReplyDeleteTo an extent they can be friends- it really is a case by case basis IMO!
ReplyDeleteI think to an extent they can be friends- It really is a case by case basis though!
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to answer this question because if one of the two wants to be more than friends, they're unlikely to admit it when asked. I just don't know!
ReplyDeleteI have always thought no to this answer. Normally it leads into something else at least from what I have seen.
ReplyDeleteJust Friends is one of my daughter's favorite movies. I'm not sure that girls and guys can be just friends after they get to know each other so much. Who knows, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If not, then you have yourself a wonderful friend.
ReplyDeleteI love Ryan Reynolds. He has always been one of my favorite actors.
ReplyDeleteAnna Faris is a great actress. Her and Ryan Reynolds do a great job in this movie.
ReplyDeleteI don't agree. I think it depends on your situation
ReplyDeleteYes - Guys and girls can be friends for sure - but I think you don't realize that until an older age.
ReplyDeleteOMG I would tell my boyfriend this all the time! Thank you I wish I could show my ex this article because I used to tell him that if you are always answering the phone for your "friend" and even hanging out with her she is going to catch feelings especially if she is SINGLE. OH and that telling her he has a girlfriend thing isnt going to work..these new age girls dont care they are happy being the side chick sometimes lol
ReplyDeleteIt's been my experience that usually when a guy and girl are "friends", one of them wants more than a friendship. I'm not saying this is always the case, but from what I've witnessed, it seems to happen more often than not.
ReplyDeleteWell I have to admit that the guys that I have had friendships with are all gay. :-)
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I started of being friends in College. I think it can be true!
ReplyDeleteInteresting to see guy look at this topic. Very interesting
ReplyDeleteI think when you are young it is harder to be just friends. Emotions and hormones are jut in the mix.
ReplyDeleteYes I think a girl and a guy can be just friends. I think having a partner to accept that they are friends is harder than being friends.
ReplyDeleteInteresting. I'm pretty sure they can be just friends, it really doesn't have to be that complicated.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree in a way that it's not easy for girls and guys to be just friends. Usually one or the other does end up having more than friend feelings.
ReplyDeleteMy best friend is a guy! I think it is totally possible.
ReplyDeleteI agree with some of the other commenters. It was easier before marriage.
ReplyDeleteI've had a lot of guy friends. Heck, Im still friends with one of my ex's!
ReplyDeleteYES!! I was just asked to be in my best friends wedding - he is a HE! lol
ReplyDeleteI've had plenty of guy friends! I think it can work!
ReplyDeleteI'm going to go out on a limb here and say, yes, they absolutely can be just friends. I have a few guy friends that I hold very dear to my heart, and we've only ever remained friends. We wouldn't change it for anything.
ReplyDeleteMen and womwn can be friends. These friendships change and adjust ovwr rime as the people get married and qspousea becime the best friend.
ReplyDeleteMen and women can be friends. These friendships change and adjust over tie as the people get married and spouses become the best friend.
ReplyDeleteI definitely think guys and girls can be just friends. Most of my friends growing up were boys, and we still keep in touch. They’re like brothers.
ReplyDeleteI have quite a few guy friends that are just friends so I have to say that we can be just friends.
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