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Man Talk: Is Monogamy Dead?

Wednesday, August 20, 2014
Hi Guys! As you know , Wednesday is the day we do Random posts on just about anything! Today's topic is all about guys and their preference. Times have changed significantly! In this "New World" anything goes , I wanted to know what guys thought about relationships in the era ... soo , a  few guys on Facebook were asked this question:

"Are you happiest when in a relationship with one person or with multiple partners"

This is not the regular Haute topic but sometimes a little spice is nice. For all my younger readers .. this will be totally PG. Below is what the guys had to say:



Mark T , 29 : "It is less stressing when you have one partner as you only concentrate on her; as the saying goes happy wife happy life.Compare to multiple partners as u have too many personalities to deal with..and in having too many to deal with it can cause emotional and mental stress and also expense is another factor.But then again it depends on the guy or girl motive in having multiple partners as it may be the best thing ever as they either just doing it for revenge Or literally jus dont care".

Sean G, 28: "I'm happier with one but the fair is plenty times overwhelming hence why some men cheat some are just born that way. I am happiest that way because there's someone that I can think about other than my self and that sort of thing comes natural unless damaged ".


Beenie Man -Nuff Gal

Derrick F, 21: " At this time in my life ... jah know ... Mi nah too look fi settle down .. so I'm happier with more than one. Variety is the spice of Life so me just a gwaan enjoy my life. As long as they don't know about each other I'm good. Multiple for me!

Tony B , 35: " Well I'm married so i'm happy with my one woman. It's nice to go home to her and know that dinner will not only be on the table but she actually care about my day and want to help me go further in life. These young guys don't know about building a life .. all dem care about is who have the hottest girl"

Gully Pete,37: "I get 6 youths because "yutes affi born" , all a dem is different mother.. so me alrite with more one! It just better to me .. no commitment , no stress , just an understanding. One thing though it cost nuff money .. as the pay reach it done!

Based on the responses I would say each guy is different , this could be due to socialization or they somehow got lost along the way. I would like to thank all the participants and for allowing me to use their names :-)

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17 comments on "Man Talk: Is Monogamy Dead?"
  1. I been to having different partners at the same time, And I find it hard to cope with it. But the feeling is great. That was 35 years ago. ha,ha,ha.. I am now 56 and contented to have with my wife.

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  2. Staying with one is enough to tickle the love hormones. Multiple partners can create multiple problems that might be injurious to health ;) :P

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  3. It is great that you bring forward this topic. I hope that monogamy is not dead, especially when I see a happy old couple still holding hands, walking down the street. However, my common sense keeps telling me that men are not created monogamous. It is in their nature to want many women at the same time.

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  4. It is definitely an interesting topic and your participants have given really insightful answers.

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  5. woah! This definitely suits my half brother, i should let him read this. Great share! Very unique too & informative :)

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  6. When dating some girls, that's the time to choose the woman you want to be your wife. But nothing is permanent, so luck plays an important role.

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  7. Stay loyal to your partner for long lasting relationship! Fact

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  8. Stay loyal to your partner for a long lasting relationship.

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  9. Multiple partners create mess in life. :P Really interesting post

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  10. The answers were hilarious and heartwarming hahaha. Some men will eventually see that having that one RIGHT person in their corner will make successful.

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  11. It is not dead but certain cultures and your upbringing play a role if you practice this or not. I believe in it. My parents are my role models, they've been married for more than 40 years!

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  12. Ha ha,.. that's a fun topic..,next you should in view women on the same topic..wonder what Intersting comments you might get from them :)

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  13. It's a topic I pondered on for a long long time after my ex two-timed me. And I guess the excitement one get when he/she has so many girls or suitors at one go...

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  14. I think it's the other partner compensating for what's missing in the relationship. Sometimes, people just can't stick to one.

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  15. When a person, man or woman, cheats on their partner it is a sad state of affairs. To me it is cheating when you are with one person and horsing around with another, unbeknownst to the first mate. Cheating is wrong, period.

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  16. This is a very interesting topic. But relationship is always complicated.

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  17. Monogamy is not dead but some folks would like it to be dead! Marriage is not for everyone, however, if you find a partner who understands and appreciates you, it's worth the effort.

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