I’m not nosy but, I have overheard some
pretty interesting conversations from singles who are actively seeking a
partner. I was there; I had my list of
criteria that I wanted my potential husband to meet. Somewhere along this
journey a light bulb went off! “What do I bring to the table?”
It
Starts With Me!
We are so caught up in adding to the “list
of things we look for in a bf/gf,” that we forget that our potential mates have
their own list too. I recommend you get your values, attitude and character in
line with the list you look for in a potential mate. Chances are there is
someone out there with a similar list, look for you!
Learn
to Enjoy Your Own Company
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I learnt this valuable lesson from a
girlfriend who enjoys her own company. If she wants to go rock climbing, she
makes the necessary arrangements and go. No need to call up a friend to
accompany her. She can be bad all by herself. This is a part of character
building, learning to make yourself happy. Once you master this, you lessen
desperation for a partner. Ultimately giving you a clearer head to choose a
partner wisely, not jumping into something too quickly because you are
desperate.
You
don’t Need a Partner to Complete You
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I am not a fan of referring to your partner
as “your other half,” or making statements such as “you complete me.” You are
complete on your own! If you take this concept of being incomplete without a
partner; in your singleness you will be lonely, desperate, feeling empty,
thinking your life is lacking something gravely important. Once you realize
there is no truth to this, watch how your confidence blossoms. You’ll walk
around chest high and a noticeable pep in your step. Should I state how much more attractive
you’ll be with a boost in confidence?
Once you come to terms that a healthy
relationship starts with me; and start working on you first, your whole outlook
on dating will change for the better. You’ll enjoy your singleness more, and if
you’re in a relationship, when you start working on you, your relationship will
improve.
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Very very lovely Shanna!
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